Although it is generally illegal, physical punishment continues in many countries. Some argue that parents should have the right to punish their children in this way. Do you agree or disagree?

Although it is generally illegal, physical punishment continues in many countries. Some argue that parents should have the right to punish their children in this way. Do you agree or disagree?

A school of thought considers parents physically punishing their wards fair and just, while others vehemently oppose this approach since this can have long-term ramifications on the young psyche. I failed to concur with the former notion as it does little good.

To begin with, parents often resort to corporal punishment, but it often contributes to low self-esteem, anxiety, and aggressive behaviour later in life. When tender minds associate discipline with pain and fear, they learn to obey rules under the threat rather than developing genuine self-interest. Thus, far from teaching responsibility, this practice reinforces emotional harm, preventing them from exhibiting their views openly. Numerous studies conducted by reputable institutions, such as the American Psychology Association, concluded in their decade-long study that fear-based approach does not build characters; it merely suppresses behaviour temporarily, and increases the chances by tenfold of youngsters growing up with trauma, unable to express themselves clearly.  

Additionally, what is described as “unnecessary evil” can easily escalate into serious abuse; children cannot defend themselves, giving this authority creates a room for normalising the violence in households, especially when caregivers are upset or overwhelmed, causing bodily and mental harm, and in extreme cases can promote rebellious behaviour due to which, many times, youngsters grow up as individuals seeking revenge on others. A study conducted by the WHO concludes a direct correlation of good parenting with a high human development index, while a majority of violent adults admitted being subjected to use of physical form of retributions during their childhood.

Overall, although some defend an absolute iron hand, the harm clearly outweighs any perceived benefits. When safer and constructive methods of discipline exist, rendering physical punishment is harmful, outdated and replaceable with healthier strategies, therefore worthy of outlawing.