Some commentators feel that grandparents should live together with their children and grandchildren, while others say that elderly people should be encouraged to live independently. Consider the possible arguments on both sides of this debate, and reach your own conclusion.

 Some commentators feel that grandparents should live together with their children and grandchildren, while others say that elderly people should be encouraged to live independently. Consider the possible arguments on both sides of this debate, and reach your own conclusion.

Why live with extended family? 

• They become vulnerable to disease and ailments and need care 

• To lead a comfortable life in autumn years, when they are dependent on others for their daily errands 

• They will be able to get emotional support 

• They can fulfill the responsibility of perpetuating traditional and cultural values to the next generation 

• They can even support their family with their pragmatic vision and also financially with their savings and pensions 

Why live alone? 

• Freedom to live as per their wish, and  have time for themselves; enjoy hobbies, travel  

• They can also stay away from conflicts and be at peace 

• They can stay in a quiet and tranquil environment where there is no disturbance 

In times when family structures are undergoing a pragmatic shift, a question arises that should those in their twilight years live with their extended families, or should they be on their own. 

Those vouching for senior citizens dwelling in an arrangement that comprises three generations feel that they surely deserve to be among their loved ones when they need it the most. This opinion is based on the fact that these people sacrificed tremendously in their  youth to rear their offspring and made sumptuous sacrifices, so that that the latter could be afforded a comfortable life, so now, when they are aging, they need to be reciprocated in the same manner and bestowed upon with all the love and affection, making their golden years enjoyable, something every aged craves for. 

Similarly, as the age catches, one becomes prone to myriads of disease and ailments besides losing the ability to fend for themselves and perform even their daily errands comfortably without assistance, and  the likelihood of accidents and injuries witnesses an imminent increment. Thus, by being in such settings, they will be able to evade such circumstances, by virtue of always having someone besides them to tend to their health and afford them necessary assistance. 

Nevertheless, those in favor of  the elderly being in independent settings compare such a condition to  cloistered lifestyle that is away from all the commotion, disquiet and generational conflicts, extending them opportunities to exercise their will and devoting themselves to their favorite endeavors; seeking spiritual upheaval, or undertaking world tours, for example.  

Overall, despite both the views carrying substance in their own essence, I opine that it is quite appropriate for the aging to enjoy their golden years in the company of their families, with their children and grandsons and granddaughters.